It's so much easier to say what you don't want to have happen in your life, or what you don't want in a relationship or mate. How often do you find yourself telling these to a friend? We are all pretty clear on the things we would like to avoid. But this behavior runs completely counter to the flow of conscious creation.

I am the creator of my own reality, and I do it with my thoughts and my words. As they influence my subconsious mind, I bring into reality what I think and speak about. We've all read this is the plethora of books on the Law of Attraction.

The subconscious mind can't distinguish between the positive and negative aspects of our thoughts so guess what? Everytime you describe all the things you DON'T want, you are actually making them happen!

It's imperative that we focus on what we DO want. Constantly monitor your thoughts, words and prayer requests to make sure you are languaging in the positive. Then just watch and wait - you will get exactly what you asked for!